Urban Dictionary defines a friend as: someone you love and who loves you, someone you respect and who respects you, someone whom you trust and who trusts you. A friend is honest and makes you want to be honest, too. A friend is loyal. Over the years my thoughts on friendship has changed. I had to start drawing the line between friends and associates. Now at the ripe age of 33, that line has become bolder. Through the years “friendships” have ended and others have grown stronger. I used to feel like I needed closure or to fix issues when things didn’t feel right but I had to realize that…